thumbnail-43Tantric massages are sexy, naughty and fun that’s not something that you didn’t already know. However, there might be certain aspects of tantric massages that you might not be familiar with if you only scratch the surface of what this experience truly has to offer for you. Scratching the surface is fun but going deeper is always much more exciting so here are a few facts that you may not realize about tantric massages.

  • Tantric massages are a form of meditation. If you think about it you might realize that you’re closer to meditation than you previously though. In fact tantric massages were first invented as a form of meditation that completely countered the typical meditation done by monks. While meditation that is traditional focuses on deprivation tantric massages focus on pleasure. In the end you’re learning how to meditate in a way that’s fun and gratifying.
  • Of course if you’re learning to meditate you’re learning how to be patient. This comes from the idea that you have to build up energy and not release it right as it’s starting to build. It takes time to climb the stairway to heaven! So by learning how to take each step as a complete experience and not rush up the stairs you’re learning how to be more patient in your every-day life outside of the throws of tantric passion.
  • How to speak your needs. For those that have gotten a tantric massage London before you know that one of the most important parts of the massage is to have clear set boundaries and to speak aloud and say what you want to get out of the massage. This makes talking to other people much easier and it helps you find your voice when it comes to sexual interactions or other less intimate encounters.
  • You start to understand that pleasure isn’t only for fun but it’s actually a necessity. We’re so used to viewing pleasure as something that is only for those of us who can’t ‘control ourselves’ but once you get tantric massages you begin to understand that pleasure is a necessity for humans and not just any pleasure but sexual pleasure. You’ll also learn that indulging in it is not just great but that it makes you feel good and when you feel good the entire world looks a smidge brighter.

Many people seem to be interested in tantric massages, and not just the people you usually associate with something like this. Married couples are 1461419020_staff_543_571b7c0ce01a6always looking for ways to spice up their relationship and feel more connected to their partners. When you love someone you want to do so many things with them and you’re scared of losing them. This is why tantric massages for couples are such a nice way to bring you closer together and have you experience something new that will continue to work even after the masseuse is gone. Being close to people, physically, is actually the best way to strengthen a relationship. When we touch we release hormones that signal to our brain that we’re happy and if you haven’t been touching much lately (not even sexually-wise but touching in general) you might find that you are feeling lonely and sad so, start touching again through tantric massages for couples from Bespoke Tantric.

During your massage session together you’ll find that you’re constantly being asked to touch each other and watch as the other person reacts to the touch. These massages will also teach you to know when to stop touching and just enjoy each other’s company. It’s a therapy session, more than anything but that deals with the problems empirically rather than theoretically. Talking comes, don’t worry, but sometimes we need an incentive to speak, a knowledge that we are being listened to no matter what is being said. If we don’t have that we feel shy, awkward and unwilling to truly express our emotions. Many wives find that after the massages their husbands are much more talkative about their feelings and this brings them much more joy and opens them much more to the wonders of touch. Tantric massages for couples in London are not rare and don’t be shy to either suggest it to your partner or to book a service for you two. Many masseuses are quite used to dealing with couples and you’ll be surprised as to how much they enjoy it!


During the Olympics this year a couple of images spiked interest among viewers. Those marks on the athletes’ bodies turned out to be an ancient form of therapy from china that helps with their recovery faster. This is more and more common among athletes and it seems that the Olympics have been a great showcase for this. Alternative therapies to traditional medicine for sports is nothing new, many athletes turn to them because they’re not only effective but they can avoid the harmful side effects of regular medicine when dealing with certain injuries or simply to better their athletic performance. Cupping (which is where those funny marks came from) isn’t the only way athletes have turned to alternative medicine in order to perform better in their sports. For many years athletes have turns to tantric massages to help them, not only with circulation and muscle recovery but with other ailments of the trade. Constant muscle pain, for example, is something that can be treated with tantric massages as the release of chemicals during the massage actually helps deal with sports injuries and phantom pains. With continuous practice the pain can actually lessen over time. It’s also a great way for athletes to relax before and after a competition, especially male athletes. During the massage the release of hormones actually helps men get naturally sleepy and this means whatever pre-competition jitters won’t keep the competitors up all night and, instead of turning to harmful drugs they can simply ease into a good night’s sleep.
If you’re not an athlete this doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy a massage of your own. Tantric massages aren’t just for everyone but they’re actually quite affordable and, if you like in London, easy to get a hold of. All you need to do is send an email and wait for the call. You can set up your Lesbian massage London anywhere and get started on an incredible form of alternative healing.